I have returned from Missouri, with daily entries still written, posted below. The trip was wonderful and the flights, both to and from, were quick and painless (I passed out while still on the runway).
11 august 2010
if i lived here,
i'd be home by now.
how we fight and kill
and slaughter to defend our
tiny, infinitesimal section of this
hardened rock.
from a mile above,
it all seems pretty folly,
realizing that what we own
is not what we are,
and all of these things
are anything
but
permanent.
but we continue to kill
and we continue to fight,
unwilling to let go of one of the
only things that makes us
feel like we're bigger than
mortal and more residual
than gods.
but we'll cease to exist.
we'll leave it all behind,
with only the dwindling and idling
memories we have spent a lifetime
creating
remaining.
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11 august 2010 (post 2)
home is a state of mind,
not a place.
i realized this long ago,
feeling at home in hotel rooms
that smelled faintly of smoke
from twenty years prior,
because my family was with me.
the section of the living room
rug where i always fell asleep
felt more like home than
my bed.
this place doesn't feel like home.
because it is missing you.
and, my darling,
you are light
and you are warmth.
you are home.
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12 august 2010
i wonder how it'd feel to
be suspended - in time, in space,
in life.
there are moments when
it is more than enticing,
when there wouldn't even be
an ounce of hesitation if i
would but be offered this chance.
then a part of me realizes
the downfall to this idea,
to this state of existence.
peace would be abundant,
i'm sure of it,
but so would apathy.
after all, how can one feel
anything when there is
no reason to feel?
never moving forward
and never moving back.
never moving anywhere.
purpose would be just a memory,
the kind that always lingers
in the back of the mind,
until it becomes the vague outline
of what once was.
perhaps this state of suspension
would be no good after all.
perhaps we have no choice
but to continue to move and
to continue to breathe and
to continue to die and be born.
always destined for heartache,
always destined for loss and grief,
always destined for love and
joy and celebration,
always destined for something.
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13 august 2010
every baby will grow up
someday.
everyone on this earth was once
microscopic, tucked away inside the
womb of some woman somewhere,
destined for what seemed an eternity
of captivity and hibernation(for what
could you really know of time?)
then, released into the world,
(hopefully with welcoming arms and
opened hearts)
breathed her first breath
of this newly discovered world.
then came a life summed up in a
series of moments:
the first day of school,
the first crush(that will break her heart;
it is inevitable),
the first failed test,
new schools,
new friends,
the first love(who, most likely, will be
suspiciously similar to that first crush
from so many years ago)
and so on, for what seems like forever,
until each moment becomes a memory,
until each memory becomes a story,
passed on and passed down,
until the cycle starts again.
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15 august 2010 (scribbled after a dream)
he stands in your front yard or when you least expect him. you shake your head and try to wake yourself because surely, this must be a dream. he tells you there is no point. he's real. he's there to stay, to guide you to all of the happiness that have you been seeking. but you must do what he says, this clairvoyant stranger. you tell him that you were going to see a friend and he politely responds that you are not. he explains that your friend is sleeping, having hurt his back, and you will see him tomorrow. instead, he sends you driving down long highways until you always crash, but manage to stay alive. he sends you to a film festival and tells you to buy a year-long membership (because apparently these things exist and you've got a lot to learn).
in the daylight, he looks old and frail. he carries an oxygen tank and his fine, white hair flutters with the lightest of breezes.
but he is still your sage. you must do as he tells you. he will make you a better person. a happier person. he will bring you to everything you want.
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16 august 2010
they say that distance
and abs(over-whelming)ence
makes the heart grow fonder.
i suppose that i must be extremely
fond of you(though i
did not need much encouragement
to be begin with).
this foreign bed
becomes vaster and more daunting
than the Sahara,
with even less inhabitants.
how i wander,
how i seek you out,
how every inch of me yearns for you.
but you are nowhere to be found
in this strange land.
you are eons away,
resting your head where mine should be,
curled amidst blankets and pillows
that should be my body.
but, my dear, my heart has grown
fonder(i thought it impossible),
suspending visions and memories of you
to keep it warm and keep it safe.
i do not worry, as i wander in
search of you.
i know i will find your arms again.
i know i will find you.